Susan's Scribblings the Blog

A writer from the Philadelphia area shares the week online.
Susan's Scribblings the Blog
  • Who the Heck is Kayewer?
  • Monthly Archives: December 2022

    • Saturday Countdown Part Three

      Posted at 4:59 pm by kayewer, on December 31, 2022

      This is the last Saturday of 2022. Thank goodness. We now have a future to look forward to, with a different digit to remember on our daily timekeeping for 365 days, new things in life starting as others end, and the burden of reflection on our past and attempts to be and do better.

      This last week, to close out the year, we lost Pele the famous soccer player, Pope Emeritus Benedict, and Barbara Walters. We lost good people in 2022. We can look upon their passing with sadness. When your good people pass on, it makes one think about the nasty ones remaining, and we can wish to make certain there are fewer of them. One is a heckler who may have had a sip of alcohol too many before sitting down for a performance of “Death of a Salesman” on Broadway; the actor Wendell Pierce, portraying the lead character Willie Loman, remained onstage when the staff stopped the production and brought up the house lights to deal with the situation, and he is being lauded for handling it with cool professionalism (he promised to give the lady a refund himself). Perhaps theaters should take on the responsibility of intoxication screening, if patrons won’t take it upon their own. I don’t want to go to a performance and have to deal with such distractions, and I have a few coming next year.

      It seems our biggest problem. coming out of 2022, remains ourselves.

      We cannot expect a future to be better if we continue to treat life as if we are owed something special. We never know what life will be like when we awaken in the morning; we may find our roof blew off overnight, or martial law has been declared. It may rain, snow or worse. I watched a recent rain event, heard the thunder and thought to myself, “Gee, that’s the first time I’ve heard thunder in ages.” News about climate change seems to fall on deaf ears. I cannot fathom how plastics could be invented without having a method for destroying or repurposing them.

      This says something about our future weather and the state of our planet; when we go too long without the weather we expect, we get more than we expect. Just ask Buffalo. They may dig out of their recent blizzard soon, but what about the future disasters waiting to happen? Before we dismissively threw our waste into landfills and oceans, we had normal weather. What’s to come?

      Some people are still in denial about the changing way we move into cold weather and the upper respiratory issues that come with that change. I have gone into malls and stores fully protected inside and out, and I only see a handful of others doing the same. Sometimes accepting some inconveniences for the greater good is also good for you. What you don’t pass on to somebody, doesn’t rebound onto you, either. Just don’t breathe on, and you won’t be breathed upon.

      The US won’t have major elections to worry about in 2023. The political fallout from post-2016 continues for us Americans (we still have the same president), but King Charles III will be crowned in May, making his rule over Britain and its other territories official. They will also have Queen Camilla, but it’s not quite the same thing as when they had Queen Elizabeth. There is still a conflict going on in Ukraine, and a few other countries are making changes. We need to watch those.

      The future is certain to hold some tragedy, some happiness, and some sobering events which will affect everybody. The best we can do is be obedient, honorable and mindful, and try to keep those who choose not to in line. It’s always been that way. That will never change.

      Share this:

      • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
      Like Loading...
      Posted in Uncategorized | 0 Comments
    • Saturday Countdown Part Two

      Posted at 3:13 pm by kayewer, on December 24, 2022

      Two Saturdays down, and one to go before 2023. This time we are going to take a look at the present, and the future will be addressed next week.

      This year has been a turning point in many ways. In Ukraine the people are dealing with a lengthy and forcible effort to change its way of life from without. In Great Britain the people are dealing with their first male monarch in 70 years, in the aftermath of the loss of their beloved queen. In the United States, recovery from an unexpectedly volatile presidency, which changed in 2021, is still ongoing, and the divisive nature of the conversion is turning party lines into those of friend and enemy with no middle ground, and a shadow of anarchic mayhem lurks over our democracy.

      The world has been recovering from biological and environmental issues which threaten our global stability. The biggest ecological problem seems to come from our disownership of our most threatening issue: our waste. We seem to have adopted a mindset in which the carriers of our products are not responsibly handled. The trash is being discarded, without concerns about repurposing or sorting, into dumps and our oceans. The plastics industry is staying silent on the issue of “can we destroy what we create?” The overall answer appears to be no, as only select plastics are recycled. At the rate of production versus disposal, our planet has finite room for its clutter, and nobody seems to be doing anything about it.

      As for the biological end of things, we were thrust headfirst into an unknown illness with no preparation and no instructions. Globally we did what we could by attempting isolation while researchers scrambled to find a solution. Unfortunately, as Cecil B. DeMille said at the beginning of The Ten Commandments, each sought to do his own will instead of making sacrifices for the common good, and though we have experienced some relief from restrictions, at the start of winter we are dealing with three separate respiratory issues placing strains on hospitals once again.

      Rights were taken away, but others were affirmed for a variety of people.

      Which is why there is some hope.

      A Black woman was added to the Supreme Court. The Webb telescope sent striking images from outer space, to give us a glance into the world beyond our own. New looks into cannabis usage has changed availability for medicinal purposes and eased overzealous laws placing people in possession of some amounts in the clear (except for one women’s basketball player we needed to get out of Russia). Awards shows resumed, as did the Olympics and sporting events of all varieties.

      Ten countries decided to unite and protect the oceans, with a goal to raise the current ten percent to thirty by 2030. The number of monarch butterflies counted in 2021 reached a milestone after a serious decline; in 2020 California teams of watchers counted only 2,000 in migration, but 250,000 were counted in 2021. Pet adoptions were increased by simply moving animals from overcrowded shelters into underpopulated ones to make more available in regions where people wanted them.

      Anti-bullying initiatives in schools are helping to increase positive learning experiences (we could use some of that for adults, too). Intolerance of negative public behavior is helping everyday life improve. Soon the name “Karen” will again become simply a first name and not an attitude.

      As biological threats evolve, medical science is adapting as well, and in time common winter ailments may be resolved by an injection or a pill in advance of their respective most active seasons.

      It’s through the cooperation of the majority that our lives improve equally and in kind. Which will lead us into next week. Hope you will pay a visit. Meanwhile, have a safe final week of the year.

      Share this:

      • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
      Like Loading...
      Posted in Uncategorized | 0 Comments
    • Saturday Countdown Part One

      Posted at 4:34 pm by kayewer, on December 17, 2022

      There are only three Saturdays left in 2022, so it’s time to take a look back at what was, is, and will be in the New Year.

      I have published 760 blog posts since moving to this forum from another platform that lost my business because they made changes I didn’t like. Since then censorship has been a bigger obstacle this year for me than it should have been, considering the fact that my content is not lewd, riot-inciting, obscene, or provocative. The ones who do post such things wheedle their way around the safety nets, and that’s just the way it is. If I can’t spread the word on some social media, it’s their loss as well as mine.

      During the summer, I managed to go almost two weeks without television. Last month, I completed my second year in a row of National Novel Writing Month, and wrote 50,000 words during November, from the first day to the last inclusive. It wasn’t easy, because so many distractions kept me from focusing on the task. However, I chose to “adult up” and got it done, paid the bills on time, performed quite a few unpalatable household chores (including wall cleaning), did several home repairs, and hired out the tasks to those who could do some of them better.

      One of the things I didn’t do is read any novels. Still regularly read three newspapers and four magazines, and completed several courses through a popular online class site. My crafting has fallen temporarily off to the side, but that has happened before, so I’ll pick it up again. Gave up some gaming apps, but stuck with three because they keep my brain from the perils of atrophy.

      I did a lot more work on my planned four novels this year than I have in a while. When the home repairs are completed, I will have a more dedicated office space to cocoon myself and concentrate on the process. It turned out that the replacement windows I ordered will not be installed until spring; until then, the space is simply too cold to work in. Honestly, though, the space in which I have been working–both when at my job from home and after hours–is still awaiting the upcoming chance to warm up a bit more.

      I discovered a brand of teddy bears that brought me joy, so I started a collection. To date, I have also gotten rid of some past relics and made an effort to discard the savings of my Depression-era parents, such as those boxes that “you never know when you might need them.” If only the fast food chains would stop giving me twenty napkins and two dozen sauce packets, I could get ahead of it.

      Baking and cooking have been enjoyable, though my best efforts to be healthy about it have not shrunken me at all. I’m starting to believe that there really is a point of no weight loss without drastic measures.

      My town lost a service station and a quick mart, but we’re gaining a food market and added a martial arts school.

      Through it all, we have tried to dig out of the messes made over the past five years, and tried to make the coming one start off better. Next week we’ll look at the present state of things and see if we can’t make some things work better by planning for what the future holds in 2023.

      That’s right: I’m still going to post on both holiday eves. I kept that resolution.

      Share this:

      • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
      Like Loading...
      Posted in Uncategorized | 0 Comments
    • Holiday-Free Zone

      Posted at 5:21 pm by kayewer, on December 10, 2022

      Last week I mentioned decorating for the holidays. What if you are the type of person who doesn’t celebrate holidays? Some people don’t do anything for even one of the most common December events. I’m not talking about Grinches, either. You don’t have to have a bad attitude to declare holidays off your to-do list. However, the Grinches, Mr. Potters (like the curmudgeon from It’s a Wonderful Life) and Mrs. Deagles (the misanthrope from Gremlins) out there don’t help matters.

      This is a time of year which, simply because it is so heavily touted as a family-oriented month, causes increases in depression and suicide. People become angry more easily due to the stress associated with societal expectations, and good intentions to diet and exercise are put off until January.

      A possible reason for the lack of celebration is also related to the increased feeling of loneliness among people who don’t have the Norman Rockwell-sized family with whom to celebrate. Some people have no family, and their friends have their own families, so the choices are limited to accepting a charitable invite, visiting a restaurant that is open, or spending the day alone.

      The societal rejects in our world are also excused from the requirements of normal existence, relegated to soup kitchens or even sitting alone in the same tent or cardboard box they inhabited the day before, trying to stave off the chill with a cup of donated coffee. It’s accepted with casual ignorance because, once we have situated our place in the world’s status hierarchy, we expect everybody else to remain entrenched in theirs.

      If a person doesn’t celebrate, it saves a lot of money on decorations, food, presents, cards and travel. It also saves others the burden of having to familiarize themselves with different people who may not have the same upbringing and, therefore, another angle of viewing the world around them. Think of it as inviting one person from political party A to a dinner at which everybody is in party B. Your guest is not like you in every respect. However, they may still enjoy Aunt Lidia’s lasagna.

      We have taken Christmas and turned it into the do-all, be-all event of the year to the near exclusion of others’ holidays. Since it was a date shifted for convenience to December 25, it seems we have chosen to designate it as such, and some cling steadfastly to it. For many others, it is a date on the calendar and nothing more. That doesn’t make their way of handling the day any more right or wrong. They are simply doing what is right for them.

      For those who just like December to be December, it’s okay, and we salute you.

      Share this:

      • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
      Like Loading...
      Posted in Uncategorized | 0 Comments
    • To Deck or Not to Deck

      Posted at 4:44 pm by kayewer, on December 3, 2022

      The holidays seem to come with a requirement that we decorate our homes. On patriotic holidays we limit ourselves to a flag, but some occasions call for huge displays of dedication and the willingness to empty one’s savings account.

      The two biggest decorating holidays appear to be Halloween and Christmas, with Easter and Valentine’s Day running neck and neck for third place. The home improvement and hardware stores, along with big retailers, set up humongous inflatables relevant to the time of year from which you can choose, such as giant stacks of hearts, or towering rabbits in pastel colors, or even Grim Reapers which could dwarf a basketball player..

      Christmas offers a staggering variety of things with which to colorfully show off your patronage of commercialism. Even though assembling a set of toy trains seems to have gone out of style, department stores offer miniature villages with themes from popular movies and television shows which you can arrange on a flat surface or under your tree.

      My issue is always with the populations of these mini villages: they’re disproportionately bigger than the doorways to the buildings. This is probably due to the consumer protections in place to lessen the chance of having the small figure of a package laden shopping lady become a snack for an undiscerning toddler, but then I would make the buildings bigger, not the people. Anybody who has ever knocked their noggin on a door jamb will agree with me on this.

      I have done it, and I’m not a seven-foot basketball player.

      One of the annual retail collections involve a group of carolers with their mouths in perfect “O” formation; even the dogs and cats. I have to avoid them when I shop, because they make me yawn. So much for perking up my holiday spirit.

      If you don’t do village scenery, you can decorate with garland and candles and themed table covers. Everything can be red and green, or blue and white, or black, red and green, or you can even go with a Diwali rainbow of everything.

      Your tree, on the other hand, can be themed for just about anything you can imagine, from a favorite movie to a favorite animal, singer, or even collectible products. The number of ornaments available for today’s trees is mind-boggling, and this is for after you string lights in computer-timed patterns not just on the tree, but all over your siding, garage and lawn. Families vie on a popular network program for a trophy and bragging rights if they have the most electrified house and biggest power company bill. I’ve yet to see if solar panels help lessen this seasonal expense.

      So what am I doing this year? I haven’t decided. I do have one of the classic Charlie Brown trees reminiscent of the annual special, with clumps of fir needles and a single red ornament. It looks nice on my table and is simple to assemble.

      Plus I don’t wind up yawning when I’m finished.

      Whatever you choose to put up for the holidays, just remember to keep the boxes, keep the valuable things out of the reach of the undiscerning toddlers (and pets), and keep the decorations up until at least January 6.

      Or when the number of pine needles on the floor outnumber those on your tree.

      Share this:

      • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
      Like Loading...
      Posted in Uncategorized | 0 Comments
    • Feedback

      Eden's avatarEden on Getting the Message
      Eden's avatarEden on The Unasked Questions
      Eden's avatarEden on And Her Shoes Were #9
      Eden's avatarEden on The Poison Field
      Eden's avatarEden on Final Tally

Blog at WordPress.com.

  • Subscribe Subscribed
    • Susan's Scribblings the Blog
    • Join 32 other subscribers
    • Already have a WordPress.com account? Log in now.
    • Susan's Scribblings the Blog
    • Subscribe Subscribed
    • Sign up
    • Log in
    • Report this content
    • View site in Reader
    • Manage subscriptions
    • Collapse this bar
%d