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    • From the Bog

      Posted at 7:00 pm by kayewer, on December 25, 2021

      Old family recipes are a big part of the holidays. Unfortunately my family tree did not include many recipe fans. As for the women in the extended family, the recipe cards were in their heads and did not transfer onto cardboard. My grandmother did not surrender any of her secret recipes, taking them to the grave with her, so we depended on my mother’s know-how to keep some in-house meals true to tradition. Sometimes a new recipe would enter our lives, and we made the effort to keep them in hard copy whenever possible. That is why, when my parents and I fell in love with a shrimp bog recipe back in the late 1980s or early 1990s, we were devastated when it disappeared.

      My mother had clipped it from a magazine, one of the many she read religiously every month. The big problem with clippings back then was that the instructions often ran atop a photo or an ad, and continued on another page somewhere in the back of the issue. This meant creative clipping, trying to preserve orphaned lines of preparation directions with careful folds or tape. Also, without the Internet being as big a resource, once a magazine was off the shelves, recovering anything from it was difficult at best. This particular recipe apparently went into a place for safekeeping, and it was so safe it was lost.

      While I was recently clearing off a bookshelf, I came across a metal box and, upon opening it, found a small treasure inside. Among its strange contents, I found a few neatly folded yellow napkins from the days when one could buy pink, yellow and blue napkins in a multipack. Also inside were bobby pins, a few clippings from businesses long gone, and to my delight, there was the original recipe for the shrimp bog, beautifully folded and hidden for decades. It was an early Christmas present and brought me joy.

      For the holidays, I’ve decided to create the dish, to end the year with an old tradition. I’ve never done seven fishes for Christmas, but two pounds of shrimp sounds like an interesting alternative. Along with onions, tomatoes, rice and seasoning, it should bring a renewed joy to the palate.

      Have a delicious holiday, everybody.

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    • Beginning of the End

      Posted at 4:55 pm by kayewer, on December 18, 2021

      We are in the last two weeks of 2021 and, true to form, the fact that two holidays are falling on consecutive Saturdays means the world will be in chaos while time marches the year to its inevitable end. Since I normally post on Saturdays, you may not see the next two entries as expected, but something will be here, early or late, because my resolution was to keep posting, and so I shall.

      It seems that 2021 is not much different when compared to 2020, since we had the same issues to deal with. The world remains perpetually sick (both in mind and body), politics are disheveled beyond belief, commerce is barely existent, weather raised its mighty hands and wiped out large swaths of populations, and entertainment and sports seem to have become a fool’s gallery of mishaps.

      Regardless of your age, it sucks to be alive right now. But also it’s a good thing to be living through this.

      Apathy is good in small doses, but spending too long in fluctuating extremes like stress or anger can also lead to a type of detachment from the world around us. The mental barriers we put into place to help us deal with adversity upgrade from wire fences to concrete walls topped with barbed wire. Meanwhile, the situations remain and continue to plague us, and we can’t stay cocooned in denial forever, nor can we just ignore what has to be done.

      These past two years have been the “Karen Years,” in which women (and occasionally their male counterpart Darrens) became social media fodder as cell phone users recorded footage of their psychological pots boiling over in public. Sometimes the cause of the upset was little or nothing, such as a lengthier wait for a fast-food order. Occasionally the issue was with covering one’s face in public places. In extreme cases, the subjects were so overstimulated by the state of affairs that they would fake injuries on camera, sending themselves sprawling onto the ground and claiming assault while the camera caught the obvious truth to the contrary.

      We have also dealt with another switch in political power, as one party went out and the other came in to repair damages in some areas while making new damage in others. Whichever way one voted, the complaints are the same on both sides, but they are simply coming from the opposing side of whoever happened to be in office because the old administration will always be wrong and the new one always right (or the old right and the new wrong).

      Everyday merchandise, along with holiday special orders, became stranded aboard container ships and in cargo holding facilities. Store shelves looked barren, and what was in stock rose in price. Meanwhile, a generation has learned the meaning of the word “quit,” and they are doing so in large numbers, while big companies are restructuring and laying off or shutting down. Others are leaving the community structure of the office in the big city or urban campus, and permanently working from home, developing new habits such as only dressing from the waist up for Zoom meetings.

      Our sense of self is being challenged, not just for how we look, but for how we may have expressed ourselves at any time in our past. Our opinions from twenty years ago may plague us now if somebody remembers them. In the looks department, models are now accepted with perceived physical imperfections or even missing body parts, which is a step toward allowing good people to exist in spite of their flaws. Total perfection, unfortunately, remains impossible to find, though some may try to define or create that ideal for the world to follow.

      Nature has produced supreme storm events and decimated populations already dealing with unchecked disease or territorial strife. Tornadoes, volcanic eruptions, severe winter and rain storms caused power outages and shutdowns and taken scores of lives.

      Yet you and I are here to record and read about them.

      We’re the resilient ones. Each of us who survives these adversities will gain the power within our souls to regroup when the bad things come to an end and bring new and good things into the world. It has been this way since humans first began coexisting on the planet, and it won’t end because a new measurement of time on a calendar says it’s a new year.

      Take a deep breath, and know that these problems shall pass, maybe not on December 31st, but someday soon. The second after that is our gift to do with as we choose. Choose wisely.

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    • No Questions Asked

      Posted at 4:35 pm by kayewer, on December 11, 2021

      My relationship with social media is a strange one. Facebook doesn’t want to boost my posts–imagine, they don’t want to take my money–because in the past year I used a totally harmless word in the context of saying it was a part of our lives and affected things. They’re too busy to filter out content that isn’t violating the rules and let it go through, but at least I’m not in “Facebook Jail” and forbidden to do anything at all. When I’m not trying to make sense of how my blog posts fit into the grand scheme of worldwide readership, I also post general observations inside the site itself, just like everybody else, and try to figure out what people are thinking and what makes them tick.

      Sometimes I get them ticked off for little or no reason.

      Somebody recently posted a large image which said rather negative things about our nation’s head of the current administration. Since it came from a woman, and I had grown tired of trying to have a decent conversation with men who just seemed to want to pick a fight, I replied and asked what she had to say about the previous administration. I think I worded it as “What did you think of the last guy?”

      Well folks, you would think I had disparaged her mamma. Not only did she not produce a word in answer to my question, but a man came in swinging in defense of her going off about how things are so bad now. He added similar observations. I felt like I was in one of those movie tropes in which I suddenly found myself outnumbered by a growing mob of unsavory characters smacking two-by-fours in their hands and producing brass knuckles from their pockets. And I didn’t say anything negative at all! I just asked, “What did you think of the last guy?”

      She wanted me to go first instead, so she could shoot down whatever I said, and I wasn’t taking the bait. He then questioned my overall mindset, suggesting I am supporting the collapse of the world as we know it and so on. In the end, I simply apologized for asking a simple question and let it die down.

      This is the kind of attitude which will continue to hold our society hostage to fear, prejudice and ignorance. When somebody asks what you think about something, if you’re so worried about being thought poorly of because of your opinion, maybe it’s time to think about the cause you are embracing. If I had received some response such as “I thought he did this right,” or “He certainly did better on this topic than the guy we have now,” it would have made for an interesting discussion. Instead, she stayed behind a curtain of uncertainty and poked her head out to pick on me instead.

      Another example of when asking a question is a bad thing, along with those old questions about why is the sun in that position at that time of day, how do we sail our ships to the New World, or why did milkmaids with cowpox never catch smallpox? Don’t ever ask questions, unless you want to not be cheated out of possibly discovering something. What is this world coming to?

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    • Twelve Repeats of Christmas

      Posted at 8:07 pm by kayewer, on December 4, 2021

      The first sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: the strangest of Christmas trees (including those cute Charlie Brown versions with one red ornament, along with themed artificial trees, colored tinsel trees, skinny trees, fat trees, and plenty of rotating bases to set them upon).

      The second sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: two-hour TV specials (every prime time show has one, and every pop culture trend makes its own, plus all the Rankin-Bass classics and oldies on public television), and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The third sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: three tiered candles (in battery or corded varieties, not to mention the single versions), two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The fourth sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: four extra circulars (even stores that rarely run ads will flood your doorstep, mailbox and inbox with advertised specials), three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The fifth sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: five repeated songs (“Jingle Bells” and “Winter Wonderland” are high up on the list), four extra circulars, three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The sixth sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: six mall merchant carts (they pop up with tons of holiday themed knickknacks, and conveniently position themselves near the mall Santa), five repeated songs, four extra circulars, three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The seventh sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: seven traffic jams (especially in mall parking lots), six mall merchant carts, five repeated songs, four extra circulars, three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The eighth sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: eight credit card bills, seven traffic jams, six mall merchant carts, five repeated songs, four extra circulars, three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The ninth sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: nine charity bins (for everything from Toys for Tots to pet food, which you can feel good by filling), eight credit card bills, seven traffic jams, six mall merchant carts, five repeated songs, four extra circulars, three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The tenth sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: ten different Santas, nine charity bins, eight credit card bills, seven traffic jams, six mall merchant carts, five repeated songs, four extra circulars, three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The eleventh sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: eleven extra hours (including 24 hours for some major chains), ten different Santas, nine charity bins, eight credit card bills, seven traffic jams, six mall merchant carts, five repeated songs, four extra circulars, three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The twelfth sign of Christmas that you are sure to see: twelve bad parking spaces (made by those who park crooked), eleven extra hours, ten different Santas, nine charity bins, eight credit card bills, seven traffic jams, six mall merchant carts, five repeated songs, four extra circulars, three-tiered candles, two-hour TV specials, and the strangest of Christmas trees.

      The most important thing you are sure to see is humanity in all its forms. How it plays out is based upon what you do. Enjoy the craziness of it all and bring some joy to your life while it lasts.

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