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  • Monthly Archives: July 2019

    • Most August Dread

      Posted at 1:52 am by kayewer, on July 28, 2019

      August is coming, and it’s a dull month in terms of holidays, but not so for activity. Folks start to come back from vacation, the college campuses start to fill up (some primary and high schools even start early), trees start to turn duller shades of green and the realities of regular life begin to sink in.

      Summer will be over soon, but for some of us nothing has changed.

      Police and fire squads, medical staff, stores and restaurants, and even the lifeguards at the shore where you’ve been on vacation, have all been hard at work. Vacations in the summer mean that fewer persons are on staff everyplace. Of course, then we all come home and spread the first colds of the season around, and we still have staff shortages everywhere. The difference is that everybody is home from vacation so spots may still get filled when somebody is out sick.

      Caregivers and private services still operate all summer long. Nobody fills in for them.

      Once Labor Day weekend comes, those same staffers who have had little to no time off will be preparing for grouchy people who return from summer vacation and find they need stuff, and nobody wants to wait for it.

      Maybe the problem is that we’ve all gone 20 years or more without being reminded, as in kindergarten, to wait our turn.

      Traffic will change from being overcrowded to being over-impatient. The good movies will come out in time for Oscar® night in 2020, and new television series will start, with new seasons of old favorites coming back.

      I live for September when Jeopardy returns.

      Clothing will also start to change over to decent coverage. Every year I am amazed at some of the hootchie momma outfits I’ve seen in public places, not the mention the workplace. Once we start cooling down, people start covering up.

      But I’m ahead of myself: we’re talking August and the dog days of summer.

      Funny that phrase, because dogs hate the extreme heat. In July we had a few heat waves, which are defined by three or more consecutive days with temperatures above 90 degrees. Otherwise known as a scorcher.

      Every year I get the urge to crack an egg onto the pavement to see if it will cook. We just had a 100 degree day, and it was too darned hot to go out to try to cook an egg on the pavement. It probably would’ve exploded had I put it on the car’s roof.

      August was named after Augustus, who was the adopted son of Julius Caesar and turned the hot mess that was the infamous assassination of his adopt-a-pop into a campaign that strengthened the Roman Empire.

      They also vacationed on the sand, I’m sure, but didn’t have to come back by September.

      So on we go further into the back half of another odd year–and I mean that both ways–wondering what lies ahead. I’m sure that normalcy will come once Labor Day is ended, for then we’ll be finished with that holiday-less month, and back to taking another day off. Except for the firefighters, doctors, police, firemen. . . .

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    • Heat On

      Posted at 1:37 am by kayewer, on July 21, 2019

      Hell is cooler than we are now. A heat wave has come, and people are heated emotionally as well. Makes me think of how impatient people become when extreme conditions cause chaos in our lives, and I feel compelled to provide the following reality check.

      We humans tend to habitually ignore the little things until they become big things. We don’t go to the dentist until our teeth hurt, or we ignore the check engine light on our dashboards until the car dies in the middle of the state ludicrous speed highway on Saturday night.

      When this happens, instead of realizing the error of our ways and acting contrite, many people lash out and blame everybody and everything else. If it didn’t require actually taking a day off from work (which we love to do beyond everything else), to get in our car (when it’s running) and, gosh gee, drive all the way to the dentist’s office twice a year, and then sit down in a chair and have our teeth x-rayed and cleaned, our teeth would never have a problem, right?

      Have you ever noticed that any car trip you don’t like, regardless of the mileage required, becomes an “all the way” trip of inconvenience? If the dentist has an office yards away from your favorite bar, it’s still an “all the way” trip.

      When your car goes months without scheduled maintenance, which requires a trip all the way to a service facility and an hour or two of your time in a waiting room (which you spend gazing at your cell phone on social media), it has the gaul to break down when the heat climbs and it refuses to squeeze an extra drop of fluid from the tank you allowed to empty.

      So that requires driving all the way to that very service facility you ignored for months, only now the wait will take several hours, and the bill will be a bit more of a strain for the wallet you just emptied at the bar next door to the dentist you haven’t been to.

      We Americans are well known for not taking time off to take care of ourselves, much less our stuff. We would rather grouse or pass off problems than get to the bottom of them. It’s all a part of our lackadaisical attitude about life as a whole. It’s killing us.

      I propose we take two months with not much going on in them–April and August–and make them Care Months. Get yourself looked at in April, and get your car looked at in August. That way you have paid attention to both at least once this year. Once you do yourself and your car, take another day in April or August for the family’s health, or the air conditioning.

      Don’t wait for these things (or yourself) to break down. By then, especially in weather conditions like these, you won’t like what happens when you join the throng calling for help. There are only so many tow trucks to get your car to a service center, and once they’re all out for everybody ahead of you, you will have to wait. And when the dentist has a room full of people with tooth problems, you will be enduring some pain for awhile before you are seen in that comfy chair where the joys of painkillers await.

      A little prevention may not end the heat, but it might curb some of the grumpiness that goes with it, because when your teeth are in good shape and your car runs, you smile.

       

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    • Timeless Fashion

      Posted at 3:04 am by kayewer, on July 14, 2019

      I received a compliment from a store associate yesterday on the top I was wearing. It’s  a yellow cotton blend shirt with embroidered dots throughout. I thanked her and revealed that I’ve had it for over 20 years. I bought it at the former Strawbridge & Clothier before it was shut down and turned into Macy’s back in the 1990s. You wouldn’t know it by how well it’s worn over the years. I wear it every summer, and it washes beautifully.

      The demise of the department store is a sad one, as is the demise of quality clothing. At the time I bought the top, it also came in blue, and I’ve always regretted not purchasing it, but old faithful yellow is still serving me well (and reminding me that I’m not becoming too fat as I age).

      The only other reminder of Strawbridge’s I own is a teddy bear created by Gund to celebrate the store’s centennial. I named it Ozzy, short for Ozymandias and based on the poem by Percy Bysshe Shelley: it serves as a reminder of how things change, and how grateful we should be to have sturdy reminders of what once was.

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    • Baby Turkeys

      Posted at 1:35 am by kayewer, on July 7, 2019

      Some animals never show themselves in public, or at least they wait until everybody is asleep to come out, such as raccoons and possums. Though I often see wild turkeys during the day, I never see their young, and my guess is that they tend to stay hidden.

      Not all youngsters can hold their own in the wild, even with both parents standing watch. Each year, Canada geese at our office complex lose youngsters to foxes and other predators.d It’s part of nature’s plan.

      By the time the geese reach that gawky adolescent stage, however, even the foxes are so turned off by their gangly looks that predatory season comes to an abrupt end.

      Well, this week I saw a female turkey crossing the road with two youngsters, so I decided to look up a photo, since I couldn’t shoot a picture and drive. Here it is, along with some other turkey photos:

      https://www.allaboutbirds.org/guide/Wild_Turkey/media-browser/65616051

      Of course, the crazy thing about turkeys is their tendency to nest in trees.  When I pulled up the photo of the youngster on a branch, I laughed. We’re used to seeing them on the ground pecking away, or on a plate being pecked at by hungry Thanksgiving hordes (let me qualify that: the adult birds, not the youngsters). Turkeys are just not regular nature subject matter. I don’t think programs like PBS’ acclaimed Nova would do a show devoted to the turkey. I welcome you to prove me wrong.

      There may be some readers out there who scoff, because they’re used to seeing turkeys doing things the average person would consider unusual. Hey, I get out much, but just not where there are turkeys in trees.

      So I crossed seeing young turkeys off my bucket list. I still have petting a bison on there. I stand a good chance of doing that, since they don’t escape into trees.

       

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