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  • Monthly Archives: October 2011

    • Whose Facebook Is It, Anyway?

      Posted at 12:16 am by kayewer, on October 30, 2011

      Facebook is a strange place.  Some people have elaborate pages and countless friends.  Frankly, though, I’m not sure if all of the names on anybody’s list count, because some people become friends because another friend has “mutual friends,” whatever that means.  It’s that old “I know somebody who knows somebody from somewhere” syndrome.

      Other folks use Facebook and keep the door open for old friends to connect with them, but sometimes folks are hard to find.  My high school class had 220 students, but I wonder sometimes if 75 percent of them moved out of the country, since they can’t be found for school reunions and none of them apparently use Facebook.

      When I started my Facebook page, I wondered who I would find, and there have been some pleasant surprises.  Whether a Facebook user gets ten or ten thousand friends, it’s always good to connect with somebody new or find somebody who got lost in the shuffle of life.

      Sure, a few folks out there abuse Facebook, like recently when a post regarding some students at a local high school made some uncalled for, cruel remarks.  The post was removed, of course, but it’s a shame that something which should be used to cause positive things in our lives can be ruined by one or two people who should think twice before hitting that button.

      I don’t know if I’ll continue to use Facebook, but I’m onboard for now and glad I’ve tried it.  It’s a great way to learn from, and about, each other.  Let’s hope it remains a positive outlet.

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    • Off the Hook

      Posted at 3:04 am by kayewer, on October 23, 2011

      Sometimes people have hobbies just because they like them, no matter how they perform at them.  If you ever knew somebody who played lousy golf or burned their way through the best-selling cookbook, they are folks who have those kinds of hobbies.  I’m one, too.

      I like to crochet, but I’m not very good at it.

      Back in my younger years, I did manage to produce a tote bag, a white Easter bunny and a hat.  They are the only things I was able to make to size and that I could use.  I tried knitting, but it’s much less forgiving (ask anybody who has dropped a stitch, but wait until the headache medicine has kicked in).  At least with crocheting, when you make a mistake, you can reverse the work by undoing all the stitches and try again.  Once in a while I have to go back two rows to fix a mistake, but at least it can be done.

      Crocheting anything to size depends on gauge (pronounced “gayj”), in which you are usually instructed to do a test square using the yarn and stitches in the instructions; once you have completed a square, you must count the stitches per inch and make sure they match the guidelines in your pattern.  If your square is too small or large, you should use a larger or smaller crochet hook to fix the problem.  This means that if your stitches are chronically off, you must have a complete set of hooks to make sure you have one which will produce the desired result.

      My problem is that I am often using a large hook to begin with, so if I have to go up a size with my hook, I sometimes have to give up on the project unless I want to invent a bigger hook by carving it out of redwood with a chainsaw.

      So I usually stick with things like throws and afghans.  Sure the patterns call for gauge, but who is going to measure the number of stitches in an inch when they’re freezing cold and just want something to warm them up?

      Besides, afghans don’t tend to rely on complicated stitches–with names  like the double-loopy-half-twist popcorn stitch–which involve directions similar to square dance calls.  If you can master one stitch and repeat it in a row 60 or 70 times for about five hours, you’ve got a completed project.

      That’s how you nip some of these frustrating hobbies in the skein.

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    • What Dancing Judges Do

      Posted at 2:27 am by kayewer, on October 16, 2011

      Frankly I’m tired of hearing people boo Dancing With the Stars judge Len Goodman.  Yes I guess I am a fuddy-duddy for playing devil’s advocate, but he deserves a good defense, and by gum this Yank is going to give him one.

      Our world has become confusing enough when it comes to competitions of any kind.  If we listened to some sour grapers out there who condemn those who come in second place (the old “failure is not an option” gone wild philosophy), there would be no reason to engage in competitive sports.  Just pick a person, let them run it and win it, and the rest can go home.

      As far as I’m concerned, a race is something which, if you start it and finish it, you have won.  I feel just as good watching somebody limp across the tape dead last as for the first fit sprinter.  I’m sure I could no sooner do a marathon than dance a tango, but I do know that competitions have purpose and reason, and they also have rules.  Those who keep the closest to the rules usually wins.

      It is the judges who “keep the books” on rules.  If the rules were to change every time a little glitch comes up (like people who don’t come in first place or can’t do a samba roll), the original purpose of the activity is lost.  Mr. Goodman is on DWTS to scrutinize the dancers and watch for the elements which make up a particular dance.  Some dances require a constant contact (or hold); others, like waltzes, rely on rhythmic movements.  My favorite, the Paso Doble, has intense exaggerated poses.  The key to a good dance is how well each specific element is performed.

      Of course, for the show and the entertainment value, the producers allow the celebrities and their partners some leeway to “dress up” the dances.  In regular ballroom and Latin competitions, there are no props or set dressings like we see on the show; often Mr. Goodman comments on some of the extraneous setups  and it’s obvious he would rather see the couples get on with the matter at hand. It’s what he is used to.  Go on YouTube and watch any Pro-Am ballroom competition and you’ll see how serious the sport really is.  The competitors have seconds to recognize the music and get into hold and start dancing.  No rehearsal tapes provided.

      What bothers me is that anytime Len Goodman says something that is negative (and unfortunately, often true) about a routine, the audience goes into a lather and boos.  I’m sure a few of the booing audience members might well be ballroom dancers themselves and may disagree with the judges, but the man is doing his job and means well; it’s as much for the good of the professionals to hear his input than for the celebrity who is trying to look like a pro fresh out of ballroom kindergarten.

      In fact, I’m sure the pros put their lives on hold to train the celebrities, and not working with an experienced partner is akin to going off one’s diet, making it harder to get back on track.  I’ve seen pros like Tony Dovolani take top prizes in “real” ballroom competitions, so Len’s advice can’t hurt his continued success.

      I also admire Carrie Ann Inaba and Bruno Tonioli, who also have jobs to do as choreography judges, but I notice that they don’t get the boo volume of Len.  It’s time to look at the trio for what they are there to do and be nicer to contest judges.  Let’s also take the time to tango.

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    • The Boss’ Pocket?

      Posted at 2:46 am by kayewer, on October 9, 2011

      A band of activists is on tour to focus the nation’s attention on corporate greed.  Michael Douglas had a character in the film Wall Street who said that greed was good, and certainly corporate America is not without its band of rich executives.  Corporate America is also filled with underappreciated executives.

      I can’t help but laugh at the fact that Douglas’ character was named Gecko, while Geico has a computer generated gecko–one of its most successful and recognizable icons–who doesn’t need to be paid at all.

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    • A Few Kudos for Andy Rooney

      Posted at 2:01 am by kayewer, on October 2, 2011

      That curmudgeonly champion of commentary, Andy Rooney, gives his last regular segment on the CBS network news program 60 Minutes on October 2nd.  But old commentators never really retire, do they?  The right to voice an opinion is as old as the soapbox on which one stands to do it, and older.

      It seems that people like to hear commentary from other people because, whether it’s the same as or different from our own, their ideas may have something unique that will expand our own knowledge.  If not, it may confirm something we already know (like the other person’s idea isn’t good at all).  Either way, the experience can be enlightening.

      Shows like 60 Minutes entertain and inform, much like newspapers, electronic media and protest gatherings (but the latter isn’t always as safe, as they are prone to getting a bit out of hand).  The closing segment has become a staple of news programs, and nobody did it better:  Andy Rooney made it enjoyable to laugh at ourselves and occasionally get mad about things that just don’t seem right.  He took the time to examine everyday things like kitchen tools (in a kitchen drawer cleaning, he found he owned more than one nutcracker and couldn’t figure out why, since nobody in his family tends to crack nuts), abnormal things like wars, the complexity of our language (if he ever reads this, I hope I got it right) and the simplicity of life in its stripped-down essence.

      Like most of us, he has made a blooper or two, getting himself sidelined from the show on one infamous occasion because he referred to something that CBS feared would inflame emotions among some viewers.  Luckily God forgives our human flaws, and CBS did as well (that and sagging ratings in protest).

      I didn’t know that Mr. Rooney’s original segment on 60 Minutes was a bi-weekly time slot shared with another called “Point/Counterpoint.”  I didn’t watch the show as much back in the 1970s (it just didn’t seem like a show for me).  Now I finally get the full thrust of the NBC  Saturday Night Live joke about CBS’s “dueling commentator” concept that was ultimately taken off the air so that Rooney could chime in every week all by himself.  He became a part of the ritual of the show; folks who would skip an entire program if they were too late to tune it in would jump aboard in the last minutes to hear what Andy had to say.  He never disappointed.

      Of course, blogs like mine are an offshoot of news commentary and that simple little soapbox.  I try to be interesting and hope readers are fulfilled with what I have to say.  Sure I’ve watched and taken mental notes on how Andy Rooney does it.  Thank goodness he has books on the market as well, now that he is semi-retired, so his words will always be around.  CBS says the door is always open if he wants to add his two cents sometime in the future.  I hope he has a few good two-centers left in him and that we haven’t seen the last of him.  He is a gem of a guy.

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