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  • Monthly Archives: December 2008

    • End of Year Wrap-Up

      Posted at 2:09 am by kayewer, on December 28, 2008

      2008 was not a great year, but at least the United States is still standing, I have my health and a roof over my head, and the malls are open.

      Best Weight Story:  I haven’t gained any weight.  Of course, I haven’t lost any weight either.  After modifications in my food choices and more exercise, you’d think I could drop at least one pound.  Not happening.  Maybe I should go on one of those tofu and water diets. . . .

      Healthy Year Story:  I did get one cold at an inconvenient time, but I learned something in the process.  After trying to sit through a production of “Othello” while my nose did its impression of a water main break, I learned that I do not like theatre in the round or performed in the midst of the audience on what the industry calls a thrust stage.  The play was wonderful, but the close proximity of the actors to me was so intimate that I got a bonus case of the hinkeys watching the Moor slay Desdemona.  Have you ever felt like a passive witness to murder with a ticket in your hand?  To add insult to injury, my theatre class instructor cornered me outside to ask what I thought, and I bawled, “It was soooo intense,” while my eyes teared up and my nose ran a blue streak.  She was thrilled that I apparently got so involved in the experience.  I’ll let her enjoy what was my worst acting performance ever; why ruin the illusion?

      Best Non-Moment:  The day I went to see “Les Miserables” in Philadelphia, the weather was the hottest of the year, but I hit upon one of those rare days in which my hair stayed put in the humidity and my face didn’t explode in the heat.  I had on my nicest outfit, I spritzed on my special occasion perfume and public transportation performed flawlessly.  The show was great and worth the wait.  So on a whim I stood by with a few more “stage door Janeys” to catch a glimpse of the star of the show (the only reason I’ve plunked down any entertainment money in the past two years that didn’t involve the above theatre class outings has been to see this one individual).  The responsibility of two performances that day precluded his coming out to chat that afternoon.  I did get to meet some of the other devotees in the lobby, so we had a fun chat in his absence.  I was also able to confirm later that the well-dressed folks I was admiring outside the theatre before the doors opened were the family members of said star, so I guess I get a point for looking so good in such good company.

      Best Non-Date Moment:  It’s kind of strange when your avatar in Second Life gets hit on more than you do in real life.

      Best Writing Moment:  I’ve managed to crank out another chapter of my novel.  I’m supposed to have something written for a planned writer’s group anthology by January 10.  If I can get that done, I’ll feel even better.

      Worst Writing Moment:  Trying to write a paper on Frankenstein for the fourth time since I went back to college.   I had to email it to the instructor at last after having had enough of micro-managing the darn thing for three weeks.  Being a smothering parent to a piece of work is a writer’s worst vice.

      Strangest Thing I Gave Up This Year:  I stopped using my radio on July 8.  After being into music culture in my car and at home most of my life, the silence is eerie.  Now everybody else is into satellite radio, but I’m not buying into that.

      As in previous years, I’ve given up giving up things for Lent for Lent: works every year (which is strange, because I don’t observe Lent).

      Things I Discovered This Year:  Orbit Citrus Mint gum, grape flavored water and chocolate covered pomegranate pips.

      Next Year:  I hope to finally get to greet said performer, lose some weight, not catch a cold and never again be forced to write a paper on Frankenstein.  I want to have my novel finished by May and that January 10 paper looking sharp.   With any luck, everybody will have more good than bad moments.  And the malls will stay open.

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    • The Office Parties Strike Again

      Posted at 1:04 am by kayewer, on December 21, 2008

      This year was a record for me:  I’ve been to four holiday luncheons and will soon attend a fifth.  I know, some people have many more than that, but for me more than one party is enough to give my vital signs a jump start.  Usually I go to just one office party held by our department at a local restaurant.  This year I changed offices (because they moved me from one state to another to help out at a different location), so I received two invitations, one boss took me and my peers out for a more private lunch, and three friends and I got together for one last munchdown before the new year dieting:  another boss will also hold a lunch next week.

      Sometimes an office party is the only time you see some of the people in your office, especially when it’s a 24-hour operation.  The same shift personnel often sit together, which is a shame because it deprives people of the chance to meet somebody new.  I feel this disconnection keenly because I’m responsible for the paychecks for a multitude of people I have never met because they work after I have already gone home.

      Of course offices can’t hold Christmas parties per se (those folks with non-Christmas holidays on their calendars need recognition too), so they’re called “Winter Celebrations” instead.  Excuse my bluntness, but I welcome the skiers and ice fishermen to celebrate winter:  I’d rather be a snowbird and winter up in Florida or the Caribbean, so I don’t really feel celebratory once the solstice comes.  I go to the parties to share human contact and discover what’s new in the world in terms of news, food and frolic.  I’ll worry about the weight after New Year’s.

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    • Echos Through the Mall

      Posted at 2:41 am by kayewer, on December 7, 2008

      I shop with a friend once a week, and with six malls to choose from we get to see everything there is in retail.  For a Thursday in December at the mall on our most recent visit, the experience was surreal to say the least.

      None of the children were happy; in fact I saw lots of teary faces on bodies being dragged about by disagreeable parents.  Stores were empty, and aisles were wide and unpopulated enough to do cartwheels in.  Even Santa packed it in early considering the mall was staying open until 11:00.  I didn’t buy a thing, but my friend found a coat at 40% off.

      People seem to be disheartened by the commercialism associated with Christmas, and the world outlook has tarnished the religious aspect over the years.  The result is a date on the calendar that has reached the apex of frivolity and is now on the roller coaster ride down into the ground level track of indifference.  Kids get gifts year round, and then we tack on another date at the end of the year in which we somehow feel obligated to pack a year’s worth of gift buying into one, and we attribute it to somebody who was in reality a sainted humanitarian given a red suit persona by Coca Cola.

      Besides the ho-ho-hooey, on the shelves at the cubbyholes we call stores in our malls, nativity sets vie for our attention.  The hilarious greeting cards that sing inane carols share space with pious solemnity featuring an umpteenth rendition of holy events from long ago that may or may not have actually happened in December, depending on whom you ask.

      Maybe that’s the problem with the holiday season:  we’ve lost track of the truth, so we are shopping in a foggy lie.

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